For a speech class, we had to make a speech, memorize it and then present it to the class. I thought of my topic to be about flirting. Not because i am a flirt or anything, I just thought that this would really catch the attention of the whole class and hopefully get a good grade from the audience attentiveness. Unfortunately, i was not able to finish my speech in the allocated time of two minutes ( i was having too much fun and i was nervous as hell!) Anyways, this is my speech, the edited version anyways..
FLIRTING
It may be as simple as looking into someones eye to a meaningful conversation that lasts for hours. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction, according to social sciences. Many different people define flirting in many different ways. It is a fact that most people to flirt to open doors to a meaningful relationship. Not necessarily a intimate relationship, a meaningful one (yes theres a difference). It is a way to preserve our specie. if we, the ever noble human beings did not have the instinct to flirt and attract the opposite sex, then human reproduction would cease. it all begins through a meaningful conversation and vibes. To define this critical period of knowing each other is called "flirting"
Flirting is more exciting in social areas like parties, drinking places and even school grounds. Eye contact is essential. Once a good eye contact is made, an interested reaction is that he or she (more specifically she) keeps the eye contact for at least one second. However, the go signal for you to approach is when they glance at you for the second time. Be quick to catch that second glance. On approach, men have the problem in this area. There is no exact script on how to begin a conversation, but just remember: initial impressions are based 55% on appearance and body language, 38% on style of speaking and only 7% on what we actually say. In interaction, be informed of the zones. Social zone ranges from 4ft to 12 ft. away. This is when we wave, nod and acknowledge familiar faces around you. Personal zone is from 4ft to 12inches (1ft). This is for friends, acquaintances and siblings. And the intimate zone is from 12 inches to skin contact (unchartered territory) This zone is reserved for lovers, parents and best friends. Keep in the borderline of the social zone because any attempts nearer can be uncomfortable not only to you, but also the person you will be talking to. Women usually give off "barrier signals" such as folding or tightly crossing their legs or may action rubbing her neck (instead of at the back of the ear) with her elbow facing you. When these are noticed, BACK OFF! Do not be too pushy in eye contact or attempting to touch. Both parties are involved here, so if one does not feel to take it to another level, dont push it. During the conversation, LISTEN and be open-minded. For guys, things things you CAN talk about: common friends, school, work, or both, the place, principles (if any). Basically, anything that is interesting enough to keep the mood up and light. Things NOT to talk about: the first thing in your head when you look at her head to toe, SEX, anything related to sex, ex-girlfriends, and jokes about the date rape drug (Rohypnol) or any drugs of any sort. If you're a joker, joke once in a while, but be tamed on the moments when to stop. Maintain your posture; use your facial expressions to show interest. Nod in approval. Not double nods (it portrays that you are bored) but slow SINGLE nods. Notice positive body language such as the girl slowly moving towards you and have the nerve to reciprocate. Its like dance, its a disaster when only one of you is in the groove.
We might just be afraid of flirting because it makes us vulnerable to rejections and disappointments. When we come to think of it, we tend to flirt even without us knowing. Call it flirting or just being friendly, having new faces into our lives MUST have more positive effects on us than all disappointments and rejections combined. If getting to know another person is fun, then why does flirting have to be any different? Take the risk of being vulnerable, preserve mankind of its species..flirt, love and reproduce.
* All of the above was researched and are supported by credible studies, youtube videos, and experiences. But does NOT AT ALL mean that the above tips are effective. Flirting is something that is meant to be experienced by all. Each unique experience is a memory worth treasuring. So, in a nutshell.. have fun in meeting new people! And when the time will be right, there you will find your true best friends and your eternal lover. heheh CHEESY!! (what isn't cheesy anyways?)
Monday, April 14, 2008
cellphone flicks
i have a cellphone.
pretty cool huh? but id like to remember what the uncle of Peter Parker( Spiderman) said, " with great power, comes great responsibility".
but whats not so very cool is the fact that my present fone is my third one. My first one, was snatched.. The second one was also snatched ( at the same place where i also lost my first one)
There was truly a time where i hated myself so much that i swore to myself to find the bastard who stole it and give him a piece of my hatred.!! I just didnt want to feel the pain of losing something like that again, and wished to rather die than to suffer like that again.. I know people when they lose their fones, they cry because they lose the sim and the quotes they had. I am not one of them, i wouldn't care less if the sim burned or died. Il just ask again for numbers of frends and quotes around will never run out. It is the fone thats important. Its expensive.
But just in case the universe works around and tried to prove me wrong, these are some qoutes that i never get bored of reading:
" I can be your amphetamine: to tell u wag kang susuko; Benzodiazepine: to tell u wag kang mag-alala; Antipsychotic: to tell you wag kang sira; TCA/MAOI/SSRI: to tell you wag ka nang malungkot; Lithium Carbonate: to tell you hinay-hinay lang; Anticonvulsant: to tell you relax ka lng; Antibiotic: to tell you ipaglalaban kita; Analgesic: to tell you ok lng yan,im here to relieve your pain; Multivitamins: to tell you ingat ka palagi" -AC
"92% of what we worry about never really happens, and the 8% left is usually manageable. Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it gets you nowhere" -JE
"the sixth sick sheiks sixth sheeps sick- the hardest tongue twister in the Guiness book of records" -EA
"Most of the things we desire are expensive but the truth is the things that really satisfy are free: laughter, family, true friends and the most of all.. God's Love" RP-L
"Keep this fishie as a sign of our friendship.. pls take care of this fishie in ur fone and once a week, u have to dip your fone in water so that fishie wont die.. ok? hehe.. morning!" -SiS
"A venti cup of caramel frap from starbucks, d hottest car models, endless shopping from gucci, Ck, Prada.. an iMax ticket.. the coolest nokia fone and iPod.. a dozen pairs of havaianas... hmmm, sounds damn great right?... yet, something is better than all these summed up..wats dat? having you share my 5-peso cup of taho, a long jeepney ride, a dvd marathon, a picture, a song, an overnight in a friends flat, the memories of a lifetym friendship!" - KK
"Define LOVE?? ... according to the nurses, and inteligent people: LOVE is a SICKNESS.. because everbody who gets it.. ends up in bed!" -Sh
"Hotness is not judged by the looks, but how you make others burn in desire." -PJ
"Dont focus on what u lost but wat remains, Dont focus on the pain but how the pain shaped you, Dont focus on the failure but on the great lessons the failure taught.. morning!" -ST
"when i was kindergarten, my teacher told me to write down what i wanted to be when i grow up, I wrote down "HAPPY" she told me i didn't understand the homework.. I told her, she didn't understand LIFE... --in your face! heheh" -Sh
"Beginning are scary, endings are sad...and the middle? well, thats whats counts the most. So do not dwell on a dismal beginning or devote yourself to aim for a happy ending" - JL
" According to Mike Murdocks law of Recognition: everything you need is already in your life, merely awaiting recognition of it.. Anything unrecognized remains uncelebrated by you.. Anything you refuse to celebrate eventually exits your life.. Have you taken a good look around your world lately?" -PJ
thats it.. i thank those people who send these.. I am proud that these messages occupy the inbox of my cellfone! ( I have many more.. but they're either green jokes or im just too lazy nowadays.)
pretty cool huh? but id like to remember what the uncle of Peter Parker( Spiderman) said, " with great power, comes great responsibility".
but whats not so very cool is the fact that my present fone is my third one. My first one, was snatched.. The second one was also snatched ( at the same place where i also lost my first one)
There was truly a time where i hated myself so much that i swore to myself to find the bastard who stole it and give him a piece of my hatred.!! I just didnt want to feel the pain of losing something like that again, and wished to rather die than to suffer like that again.. I know people when they lose their fones, they cry because they lose the sim and the quotes they had. I am not one of them, i wouldn't care less if the sim burned or died. Il just ask again for numbers of frends and quotes around will never run out. It is the fone thats important. Its expensive.
But just in case the universe works around and tried to prove me wrong, these are some qoutes that i never get bored of reading:
" I can be your amphetamine: to tell u wag kang susuko; Benzodiazepine: to tell u wag kang mag-alala; Antipsychotic: to tell you wag kang sira; TCA/MAOI/SSRI: to tell you wag ka nang malungkot; Lithium Carbonate: to tell you hinay-hinay lang; Anticonvulsant: to tell you relax ka lng; Antibiotic: to tell you ipaglalaban kita; Analgesic: to tell you ok lng yan,im here to relieve your pain; Multivitamins: to tell you ingat ka palagi" -AC
"92% of what we worry about never really happens, and the 8% left is usually manageable. Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it gets you nowhere" -JE
"the sixth sick sheiks sixth sheeps sick- the hardest tongue twister in the Guiness book of records" -EA
"Most of the things we desire are expensive but the truth is the things that really satisfy are free: laughter, family, true friends and the most of all.. God's Love" RP-L
"Keep this fishie as a sign of our friendship.. pls take care of this fishie in ur fone and once a week, u have to dip your fone in water so that fishie wont die.. ok? hehe.. morning!" -SiS
"A venti cup of caramel frap from starbucks, d hottest car models, endless shopping from gucci, Ck, Prada.. an iMax ticket.. the coolest nokia fone and iPod.. a dozen pairs of havaianas... hmmm, sounds damn great right?... yet, something is better than all these summed up..wats dat? having you share my 5-peso cup of taho, a long jeepney ride, a dvd marathon, a picture, a song, an overnight in a friends flat, the memories of a lifetym friendship!" - KK
"Define LOVE?? ... according to the nurses, and inteligent people: LOVE is a SICKNESS.. because everbody who gets it.. ends up in bed!" -Sh
"Hotness is not judged by the looks, but how you make others burn in desire." -PJ
"Dont focus on what u lost but wat remains, Dont focus on the pain but how the pain shaped you, Dont focus on the failure but on the great lessons the failure taught.. morning!" -ST
"when i was kindergarten, my teacher told me to write down what i wanted to be when i grow up, I wrote down "HAPPY" she told me i didn't understand the homework.. I told her, she didn't understand LIFE... --in your face! heheh" -Sh
"Beginning are scary, endings are sad...and the middle? well, thats whats counts the most. So do not dwell on a dismal beginning or devote yourself to aim for a happy ending" - JL
" According to Mike Murdocks law of Recognition: everything you need is already in your life, merely awaiting recognition of it.. Anything unrecognized remains uncelebrated by you.. Anything you refuse to celebrate eventually exits your life.. Have you taken a good look around your world lately?" -PJ
thats it.. i thank those people who send these.. I am proud that these messages occupy the inbox of my cellfone! ( I have many more.. but they're either green jokes or im just too lazy nowadays.)
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